When you have just gone through a break up, you may try everything you can think of to get your ex back.
If you want to successfully mend your broken relationship, then you will need to know some of the most common mistakes many people make.
Avoid these mistakes and you will fast be on your way to making up and getting your ex back.
Mistake #1 In those first initial moments after the break up, everything inside you wants to call, email or send a text message to him or her.
This is one of the worst things you could do.
You need to break off all contact for awhile to give them space and give yourself a chance to get your thoughts and emotions under control.
You will need to give yourself and your ex some time apart without any communication.
Mistake #2 Withdrawal from friends, family and life in general is another mistake many people often make.
You need to get yourself together and not wallow in pity.
Get out of the house and do things with your friends and family.
Go do activities you enjoy and move forward with your life.
Once you are capable of accomplishing this step, you will be on your way to being able to begin talking with your ex and start mending your relationship.
Mistake #3 Among the many thoughts you probably have running through your head, thinking you need to change to be what he or she wants is a huge mistake.
You need to be yourself just as your ex needs to be himself or herself.
Changing who you are does not work.
For someone to truly love you, he or she needs to love the real you.
Mistake # 4 Once you get to the point where you both can work on restoring the relationship, you need to take things slow.
Do not rush things in an attempt to rebuild the relationship.
Treat this as a new beginning and date slowly to give you both a chance to reconnect.
Given enough time, you can have an even better relationship than before the break up.
Avoid these common mistakes as a beginning point to get your ex back.
If you are truly meant to be together, you will be in your way to making up!