You see him from across the room and suddenly...
your heart starts to skip a beat.
You don't know why, you really can't put your finger on it, but you know what you want him! The only problem is...
he doesn't seem to be noticing you at all.
When you are in a situation like that, what are you going to do? You don't want to just walk away from the opportunity of getting to meet him or getting to know him.
You know that you want to be able to get his attention, you just do not know how.
Being in situations like this can be frustrating and almost makes you wish you had some magical power to allure him.
Don't worry, though.
Getting a man's attention does not have to be as hard as it seems.
It can be easy for you to get his attention and make him feel like he really wants you.
You can even give him that same feeling of having his heart skip a beat if you go about it the right way.
Most guys are inherently shy about meeting new women...
This is going to hold true for most men that you come across.
Even guys who seem like they would not be shy at all do have this tendency when it comes to meeting new women.
So, it's not like you can really expect him to be as much of a take action kind of guy as you want him to.
You have to set the stage so that you allure him, so that he can't help but to notice you.
He won't be able to take his eyes off you if you show him that you are a confident woman...
If you are going to get a man's attention, then you really need to show him that you are a confident woman.
While there are some guys that go after shy women, most are really looking for a woman with confidence.
And a lot of the time, the guys that do seem to zone in on shy women have their issues, they are the kinds of guys you want to avoid.
Show him that you are confident and let that aura project and his eyes will come across you.
Use open body language to 'invite' him to come and talk to you...
When it comes to making the approach, a lot of men are apprehensive.
So, if you are standing there with body language that is closed off, chances are he will figure that you are not really open to having him come over to start a conversation with you.
Stand with open body language so that he knows that you are not going to give him the cold shoulder.
Give him a warm smile and let him know that you want his attention.
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