If you're wondering how to get a girlfriend back, then it may well be that the initial breakup was less acrimonious then you thought, and probably not so devastating that the relationship cannot be saved.
You'll just have to trust that your ex feels the same way.
1.
Now before you go any further, think for a moment.
If you caused any hurt in the initial breakup, then now is the time to say sorry.
This is a good first step as long as you are sincere, and don't go the "but you did this" route.
Accept responsibility for your own actions, and deal with them.
2.
Show her that you miss her.
Sending the odd text, (don't bombard her with hundreds) simply asking how she is, and that you miss her.
Tell her how sorry you are.
Send her some flowers (have them sent - don't pick them up off a forecourt), buy a card and put a short note in it.
Put yourself in her position and think of what she would like.
3.
Women often complain that men aren't thoughtful.
You might be wondering "how to get that girlfriend back by being thoughtful"? Think back to the beginning of the relationship - what thoughtful things did you do then? Your ex may see through this, but stay patient and keep up your efforts.
Don't get frustrated or appear angry.
Remember, it feels good to make your ex feel good, not because it's a means to an end.
4.
Often we seek refuge in other people when we lose a relationship.
However, if you're serious about getting an ex back, you may need to make sacrifices.
If you date someone else, just remember that you're pushing you're ex girlfriend away (at least that's how it will seem to her, and make you more unapproachable).
It's also not very fair on your date, as she's not the one you really want to be with.
To get that girl back, you have to make some tough choices.
5.
What if she's dating? She may be dating to play "hard to get".
If you can show your ex that she would be happier with you, then you've got a chance.
"How do I do that?" I hear you ask.
Well, it's all about thoughtfulness again.
Even if it appears she's moved on, still send her a card wishing her a great week, or if you know of an upcoming event (job interview, competition etc.
,) write about that.