Americans have had it with their demanding jobs and stressful lives. "One-third of Americans say they always feel rushed, just over one-third say that their lives are out of control, two-thirds say they want more balance, and about 60 percent would like to simplify their lives", according to Julie B. Shor, author of "The Overspent American".
People are getting tired of the daily hustle and bustle, waking up in the darkness, before the sun rises, and getting home in the darkness, after the sun sets. Our lives are on fast forward; work, school, family, community. When do we get to the point of a simpler lifestyle where there is peace and balance? It's up to us to take charge and make changes towards a more peaceful existence, but not without some drastic changes. For most we are forced into lifestyle shifts due external circumstances, such as lay-offs, salary cuts, re-location, or illnesses. This can be a time of reflection; to ask yourself the tough questions about what do you really want out of life.
Many times we associate our earning potential with our identity. We feel more accomplished with the higher paying demanding positions. Our rationale is we must be valuable because these companies require our skills and talents to succeed, and without us they would fail. Believe me when I say, if you leave today, your seat will be filled in less than 2 weeks. To downsize our lives appropriately we must change our relationship with money, time and work. We have to stop believing that the world will stop spinning on its axis if we don't show up or stay late. We must stop excessive shopping; stop spending long hours working. A complete mental shift must occur in order to have a simpler life without all the frills and thrills of immediate gratification. Once we make up our minds, the possibilities are endless. Challenge yourself and see what you can let go of to make your life easier.
Partnering for your personal financial success!
Jacqueline Williams
Financial Strategist
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