Breastfeeding is something that is very rare in the Western world.
Of those who do choose to breastfeed only a small percentage will continue after 6 weeks and an even smaller percentage go on after 6 months.
Despite this there does seem to be encouragement of breastfeeding and an increase in those who opt to do so.
For me personally, I am considered an extended breast feeder.
I still nurse my 2 and a half year old.
Some people consider this to be disgusting, while others consider this admirable.
I just do what is right for me and my son.
I find it naturally and haven't overcomplicated it by over thinking it.
I also haven't fallen into the trap of caring what others think either.
It has been fairly challenging at times to continue feeding my son as when he goes through growth spurts he can have restless nights that send him into a feeding frenzy.
However despite this, nursing has been an enjoyable experience and something I don't see as being a hassle at all.
I enjoy sitting with my son and know that each time is a time for us to bond that little bit more.
I also find these days, nursing is more about comfort for my son than nutrition, although he does tend to have an extended feed in the morning.
Besides this he rarely nurses during the day and when he does it is for comfort or because he is thirsty.
It is at these moments that I tend to offer him water first and most of the time he opts for that choice.
Breastfeeding isn't the same for a toddler as a newborn.
I think this might be the reason many people think its weird because they maybe seeing in their mind's eye a woman nursing a toddler the same way they do a newborn.
A newborn feeds very often, a toddler doesn't.
I have really enjoyed the natural progression my son has taken with nursing.
I chose to let him do his own weaning onto solid foods and he did that pretty well, although his interest only really became apparent at around 14 months.
I also intend to let him wean himself nursing as he is doing a good job so far.
I just think that it's a lot easier to do than to try and force him away when he isn't ready.
I also think breastfeeding isn't just a nutritional component, it truly is a bonding experience that I don't think anyone can understand until they do it.
It can be very subtle at times and you can still continue the bonding process without even really realizing, but every feed offers something to both you and your child.
Overall my experience with breastfeeding has been great, however it hasn't always been easy.
My first few weeks were a nightmare and I really struggled.
I was lucky to have superb support from a midwife who helped me get where I wanted to get.
It can be difficult at first but once its established its one of the best things you can do for your child and yourself.