Lot's of people want to give you good relationship break up advice, but will any of this advice do you any good? The following tips are for those of you who need a little help in discerning who to listen to and who not to listen to about relationships.
The first group of people to stay away from are the 'know it all's.
' You know who they are.
The kind of people who always have advice about something they know nothing about.
The guy who talks about what's wrong with your car, but has never fixed his own car.
The girl who has been married 3 times who knows all about the right man for you.
Although these examples seem obvious in whom not to listen to, it is surprising how much we will keep on listening.
This reason we listen sometimes is because they are our friends or maybe we will finally hear the 'right relationship break up advice' from someone-so why not listen anyway just in case? However, if these people can't 'walk the talk' what good is their advice? Another group of people to stay away from are the ones who are always offering advice that you didn't ask for.
Some people do like to hear themselves talk, especially when no one else is interested.
It's just a way to get attention.
When I used to wait tables, it always seemed like the biggest complainers were the ones who didn't get much attention at home; so, they would take it out on their waiter when they went out in public.
Once I understood why they were doing this, I made sure to give them the most attention at the table.
I even went out of my way to make them feel special because I felt bad for them.
Even though that technique worked great, don't listen to relationship break up advice from these attention seekers!