So, you are worried over your children's temper tantrums. If your answer is in the yes then may be you don't require anyone else's help. If the situation is not worse then you can mange your children without seeking any professional help. However, if the problem still persists then you can become a good guide for your children without telling him. You can face these problems and in fact can enjoy the remedial methods being used by the professionals all over the world. For this you need to plan and device some new methods with your high imagination. You know that after implementing these tricks you are going to eliminate their tantrum producing behavior. After all you want your children back. You naturally want to get rid of the bad habits controlling them. Like many other you can also control your children and make them an obedient.
First of all you should stop rewarding them. If your children's temper tantrums are creating a nuisance and you are rewarding him or him then you are committing a big mistake. Always remember this golden rule that you should stop rewarding him immediately. This will be the first sign for teaching him the good lesson for his or her misbehavior or indescipline. You just start ignoring him or her till they realize their fault and ask to forgive. So by following this method you certainly develop a kind of feeling among your children that they are not above discipline of the house and they have to follow it at any cost. You will find a remarkable change in your children after you start implementing such rules with all strictness. However, don't forget to reward him for his best disciplined behavior later on. You can always reward him for his best manners or anything good which he does. You have to understand this also that children are children and they need some guidance also. So it is always useful to inculcate good habits among them.
Another point is that you can make them understand how they should behave. You can tell them in the beginning also to improve them. It will make an impact on them and they will change their behavior accordingly.
If despite your all such tactics your child has refused to improve and continue to show the tantrums then you can use the harsh behavior. You can tell him before that he is responsible for his acts. So the time he yells or creates a scene in public then he is responsible for himself and should know the amount of punishment he or she is going to face. This will help them in making improvement much earlier
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