You want to be sure you are doing the right thing so you don't make things worse.
This article will share with you helpful tips on how to repair a broken relationship.
First of all, understand that there is hope for your relationships.
The truth is that most can be saved regardless of the situation that lead to the break up.
Couples have weathered many serious problems, adultery, loss of passion, and more and if your relationship had a foundation built before your break up then there is hope for you.
But when you are repairing a broken relationship you must not be lead by your emotions.
Here is a list of things not to do.
- apologize obsessively for everything
- promise that you will change
- try to convince your ex that they were wrong to break up
- beg and plead with them to get back together
Here is the one thing you must do to start healing the relationship.
What you must do is agree with the break up.
Now I know this sounds like the exact opposite of what you think you should do or even what you want to do and I know you are thinking this will just release your partner and they will move farther away from you, but think about this and try to remove the emotion for a moment while I explain why this is so powerful.
You know from your own experience that you always want what you can't have.
Right? I mean this is obvious from your current situation, you want your ex back for many reasons but one strong reason is because you can't have what you want.
This is basic human nature and your ex has the same human nature instinct.
So why aren't they interested in coming back? Because they know they can have you at anytime.
If however, you agree with them that the break up, while hard, is the best thing and you agree that the two of you should be broken up, then their natural desire to have the relationship back will build and this will reopen your communication.
I understand this is scary but it works and if you would like to find out more and even see a video about this, then click the links below.
There is hope for you and this is the first step in learning how to repair a broken relationship.