Using online dating sites is not a contest and shouldn't be a competition between males trying to get the attention of females.
It's time to grow up.
All men need to change their mind set from competing and winning to searching for the women.
It is time to get out of high school and move into adulthood.
You are now grown up and a man.
The way you approach women and your attitude is your most important gift.
Be confident in yourself and don't think about what is suppose to be the perfect guy that women are looking for.
It's time to get this out of your head and become the man that you are meant to be.
What do women want, is this the question you are asking? It's the question that all men are asking.
Since I am a woman myself I have the ability to tell you what women are looking for and what they are not looking for.
Here it is, this is what women are looking for, they want a man to be confident, women are not looking for jerks or arrogant men.
There is a big difference between arrogant jerk and confident man.
The first thing the men need to do is not to be self depreciating and you shouldn't project yourself like a god that fell from the sky and you are a gift to all women.
The opposite is true, women don't want you to think they are some type of gift from the heavens; they will not be able to live up to this type of notion.
Women are looking for a man that can communicate.
I know that the movies present the strong silent type as being the men of men, but this is really not that appealing to women.
When you never talk and don't converse with them they think that you haven't been listening plus there is not a thought in your head.
They are looking for you to be interesting; they want to know more about you.
They are hoping that you are intelligent enough to ask questions about what women find important.
Women are not a prize that you win in a contest.
Don't treat the women like a trophy that you would put on your shelf.
They want you to show them that they are the one and this is the women I want to be with.