Your break up with your now ex boyfriend may still be hurting you right now and if you still have feelings for him, you are very likely to be finding ways to get your ex boyfriend back. If that's what you want, then there is no harm trying. While nobody can guarantee if you will get back together, here are some tips for you to up your chances in mending your broken relationship and have him back again.

Check Your Feelings Before You Act

Sometimes you might be reacting by simply wanting him back. You have to be clear why you want him back, why this relationship is so important or any other silly reasons to want him back. If your intention is driven by selfish, insecure reasons, chances are, you two will break up again and you will only be using him as your crutch. The best way to test your feelings is to not stay in bed thinking about what could have been but go out there, make a full schedule with all the activities you enjoy and try to live your life like an independent, firm minded single woman. If you are feeling insecure, chances are, you only want him back to make you feel complete and taken care of. The truth is, you are already complete. So, dig deep and check your feelings if you do care for him genuinely.

Run A Check On His Feelings and Situation

If he is going out with someone new and ditching you for the third party, then it is time to let him go don't you think? Give yourself some respect and don't ever let yourself be his standby girlfriend whom he can take and leave as he may like. If he is dating someone, you can go out with nicer guys who will appreciate you and not teat you as a stand in. If he is single and still grieving over the broken relationship, you have a better chance to get him back because it could be a misunderstanding between you two to break up in the first place.

Review Your Relationship And Find The Truth

Your ex boyfriend may be dropping hints or you have been doing something that hurts your relationship bit by bit each day that it finally lead to your break up. If there's been sarcasm, mean things you've said as a habit or which you think maybe funny but has been at his expense and killing him each time, then it's time to quit those bad habits and be a nicer, more likable person. Once you have demonstrated that you've changed (and by this I mean prove it to him), he will more than likely forgive you and find a way to get back into your life.

A relationship only works if both partners are on the same page as it were and heading through together the right direction. If one is taking actions that drive the other one away or you both are together for selfish reasons other than genuine interest and appreciation of each other, then it will only lead to a superficial relationship that is short-lived. Reviewing your relationship, getting out of the house to go on and experience normal relationships, will help you to zoom out of your current situation and see the bigger picture of your relationship and also any of the flaws of it. Once you've had a fair opportunity to identify your mistakes and all those associated problems, try to rectify it and be a better person. You can greatly strengthen the prospects of getting your ex boyfriend back if you put in the effort to change for the better