Your ex broke up with you, because it was your fault. Perhaps you never changed, or always argued. Maybe you did something worse, such as cheating; but either way you want to be able to reverse the pain that you caused.

Read on to find out the 3 tips which will reverse the pain you caused your ex....
#1. Make them forgive you - This requires time, as not all wounds heal right away. Don't push it, and make sure that you can convey how genuinely sorry you are.

You should also be willing to do a few things and go out of your way for your ex, because that may be what he/she needs in order to forgive you.

You must remember that you were the one who messed things up, so now you have to undo everything by going far more out of your way for your ex, than you would have otherwise.

#2. Give a genuine apology ONLY for what you did wrong- You shouldn't be saying things like "I'm soooo sorry, please forgive me, please!" as that is just desperate and will only make your ex think you are saying it just to insult their intelligence.

To give a genuine apology, you should only apologize for the thing which directly hurt your ex, and nothing more. Apologizing for things which you did not do, is just as bad as pleading and begging them to forgive you.

#3. Forgive your ex with NO attachments- If you want to be forgiven, you first have to forgive your ex, and you also cannot expect them to do the same just because you have.

Forgiving your ex means that you can NO longer argue or criticize them for things in the past, and while you can remember things your ex may have done wrong, you should no longer blame them or shove it in their face.

Showing your ex that you forgive him/her is also a great way to psychologically convince them to forgive you as well, because it shows them how much you are trying to change and be better.

BUT, when you forgive your ex, you should not make it sound like THEY were the one in the wrong, and as if they would go to hell had you not forgiven then. Don't blow things out of proportion, especially if your ex asks you what you forgave them for.

It's best not to list individual things if your ex does ask, because they may not agree with you that these things needed to be forgiven in the first place.

Once you have forgiven your ex, you should work on forgiving yourself, because sometimes that is the core issue and reason why people cannot move on (from the event), because they cannot forgive themselves. If you cannot forgive yourself, then your ex may feel as though you don't deserve to be forgiven by them either.

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