The question of how to fall in love and stay there is asked by many people who have had an unexpected, recent break-up. At times like these, one is left feeling totally empty, miserable and, in some cases, very depressed. After a while, you begin to ask yourself if you will ever fall in love again, and be in a healthy relationship, and how to maintain that healthy, loving, relationship.

It is extremely hard work to keep a relationship growing and interesting. There are many good and bad situations that occur during a relationship, and the big thing is to deal with these situations in a manner, which suits both you and your partner. If you can manage to keep the infatuation, mystery, and passion alive in a relationship, the rest is easy. Once these elements of a relationship begin to fade, this is when the danger of a break-up becomes evident.

You and your partner are equal halves in a whole relationship, which means that everything, the good and the bad, should be shared equally. This way, neither of you ends up having to deal with the problems, or the joys of the relationship, more than the other, that will inevitably lead to an argument. A vital part of a relationship is to respect your partner and his/her role in the relationship.

It is also important for you and your partner to know each other completely. Be sure to always be truthful to each other about everything. If you have come into a relationship without telling your partner about certain things in your past that could jeopardise the relationship, and he/she finds out about it at a later stage, this could lead to the relationship falling apart. Honesty is so important in a relationship. It builds up a feeling of trust that goes a very long way to make you and your partner love each other even more.

So, in short, once you have fallen in love and are in a good relationship, work very hard at the important things that will keep the relationship going. Keep it a fifty-fifty relationship and share everything, show respect to one another, be honest about everything, and, above, all communicate about anything, be it good or bad. If all these elements of a relationship are adhered to, passion and romance can only grow in leaps and bounds, and make both you and your partner love each other even more.