Are you ready to tell your child sexual abuse story? Sometimes, the only way to defeat the traumatic experience is sharing it to others.
A lot of victims allow themselves to be consumed by their suffering, and no matter how hard they try to forget it, it's always there corrupting their minds and taking away their future.
Overcoming the trauma is the only way to recovery.
One can never proceed on building a new life without putting the past behind them.
As long as you continue to suffer from the memories of the day you were sexually abused, you will never cease to become a victim of it.
By sharing your experience to someone, you not only give yourself a favor, you can also help fellow victims.
In fact, you may be able to make them realize that they are not alone in the fight of overcoming the abuse and they are not the ones to be blamed for what happened to them.
For a victim to recover successfully, you have to be there to sit and talk with him/her.
Sharing your own abuse experience proves to him/her that you can relate and feel the same way.
The best thing about it is that it becomes a two way process, much like a win-win scenario.
As you tell your child sexual abuse story, other people may be able to help you overcome the trauma while at the same time, you also give others the opportunity to air their own story.
In no time, you'll soon find out that defeating the troubling memories of the past can be much easier to deal with in the first place.
Although counseling and therapies in the company of professionals are greatly advised, the effectiveness of the healing process has become a big issue for many patients.
Telling your story to someone who has not felt and experienced what you have suffered may be awkward and unproductive.
In fact, some of the victims subjected to therapies aren't even that cooperative as soon as they know that they are talking to an expert or professional.
There are various reasons why many victims don't speak up.
One of them is the fear of being embarrassed or misinterpreted by people around them.
They start to think that everyone will turn against them and even friends and relatives will degrade them.
Additionally, the fear of being harmed once again by the offender is always there whenever they decide to surface and tell the world about the abuse.
Nonetheless, the fear of disclosure must be defeated by the importance of telling your story and letting it all out.
Though it can be easier said than done, you will realize later on that right after revealing the details of what you went through, there is this sense of relief and liberation.
You cannot allow yourself to be consumed and imprisoned by the horrible events of the past.
By sharing your story to others, you get to build strength and move on to live a future without the painful recollection of the past abuse.