Almost every adult person in this world has experienced a break up, either mutually or by a big fight.
Many of them have recovered the shock and believing the phrase 'life must go on' they discovered new relationships and settled with them.
But some of them become depressed with the loss and want to get back the old flame in their life but wondering how to win back the heart again.
Before considering how to get your ex back, you should think how your relationship ended.
If you both separated mutually and peacefully, and still both of you are not engaged with someone again, it's very simple to reconnect with each other.
Just a simple phone-call, or SMS about 'how things are going' or 'how she or he is feeling these days' may break the ice between you.
You both realize all is not lost and actually you want to live life together.
Start again not as old flames, but as two good friends and things would turn again to a positive direction.
If your relationship has ended by a bitter fight, by attacking each other personally, by throwing poisonous words at each other, there may have some difficulties to forget all those bitter experiences at once.
You may hesitate to start as there always is a possibility of break up again.
Human relationships are fragile, they always breaks at the slightest provocation.
The relationships which are nature-made, may turn bitter one day, but there lies a fine thread which always pulls you somewhere in your life.
But those which you create with a man or woman need to be nurtured continuously in order to flourish it fully.
So be considerate with your partner, listen what they're saying, and take action before reaching the stage of thinking how to get your ex back again in your life.
If you still think you will be able to get your old flame back, don't get depressed, don't make phone call constantly, don't try to stalk him/her, and do not want to engage with someone intentionally just to make him/her jealous.
Instead, make new friends, go to new places and engage yourself into some meaningful work, do exercise regularly, pass time alone with a book, try to remember the important dates and events between you two and let him/her to remember them.
Keep patience in order to get your ex back in your life.
If you both love each other truly, you must unite today or tomorrow!