Or have you? It is pretty common for one or both people in the broken relationship to wonder if it should be given another chance.
Even if both of you are warming up to this idea and have agreed to see each other, you need to be thinking about where and how to meet up, at least the first few times.
So, you are thinking about meeting after the break up.
Here is what NOT to do as we take a look at the 3 worst places to meet with your ex girlfriend.
- Meeting at one of your familiar "hang outs".
Oh, so many of us make this exact mistake! You both need all the help you can get as you do the awkward rediscovery of each other.
This includes going to places that are new and different.
It doesn't have to be some place that is expensive, or at all impressive since the point is to symbolize the possibilities of a fresh start.
Please don't do the dinner at your old standby and then a movie. - Meeting at a place that will remind her of your lack of attention to her.
Now get this straight - a higher price tag does not equal higher level of attention! Lots of guys make the mistake of trying to impress the ex with gifts or taking her to an expensive restaurant or event.
But the attention she wants is quiet moments, conversation without interruption, and you doing things that she loves and you don't.
This might involve a walk in the park or a picnic, go shopping or antiquing, spending time with her at some special event with her family.
And the key is giving her all of your attention, to the point of thinking you are overdoing it because she will not think you are. - Meeting in a place where she could feel like she is competing for your attention at that very moment.
The classic example would be taking her to the bar and grille where everyone knows you.
And you definitely do not want to go to a place that is crowded and there are lots of good looking, available women around you.
I hope that is an obvious one to you.