Feelings of desperation are always understandable when you wish to get back together with your ex.
However, this can create problems for you for a variety of reasons.
When you wish to win back your ex, feelings of desperation can be a huge turn off to your ex.
Do you constantly wonder why all your attempts to win back your ex seem to have backfired in every way possible? I bet you're feeling that you'll never be able to win back your ex.
Don't worry; think positive! If you're constantly feeling negatively about your attempts of winning back your ex, then there is a huge possibility that you have fallen in the classic trap.
In other words you're making rookie mistakes! You're continuously calling your ex, sometimes so much that they just simply turn their phone off! They despise you at the minute and all they feel is anger and hatred towards you.
You have become desperate and this has turned your ex off completely.
How do you expect your ex to miss you when you're constantly on their tail?! All you ever seem to do is apologize for everything.
Sorry this and sorry that! Nine times out of ten a failed relationship is due to both of you.
Saying sorry for everything just shows how weak you are and how much of a pushover you are.
Yet again, another turn off! Failed relationships are always a hurtful, painful experience which can result in a spurt of depression.
Perhaps you've been avoiding friends and family, hiding away in your corner.
If you wish to win back your ex, you must be able to look and feel positive again.
Showing that you're depressed shows that you're unstable and will hurt your chances of getting back together again.
The fact of the matter is that you've ruined your chances of making amends in your relationship.
Now, all you have to do is take this advice on board and learn to become calm.
You never know, winning back your ex could just be around the corner!