It's often hard to read an ex when they're giving you the signs they want to get back together.
We have a tendency to ignore them or receive mixed signals unless they literally hold a sign outside of our window that reads 'let's get back together.
' Here are some other vibes that you can read in to.
Step 1:A Breakup: Maybe your ex decided to get their hands dirty in the meat market and started dating somebody new.
Before they realize they want your prime ribs back, they'll have to split with their current beau so if a breakup occurs, it could be a precursor that you're about to get back in the mix.
Step 2:A Facebook Message: Kids today have it so easy, instead of egging a house to show a girl you like her you can just send a Facebook message.
If you happen to be a recipient of a random message from your ex, they could be putting their plan in motion.
Step 3:A Text: The next best thing from hearing your voice for your ex is to read a text from you.
Sometimes they need to initiate the conversation and a text out of the blue that asks what you're up to is a great sign that somebody is thinking of you, unless it's a mass message.
Step 4:Anything Random: Basically, any contact you weren't expecting is a sign that your ex might have an inkling to rekindle the romance.
They've spent some time waiting for you to take initiative but since you aren't the ex can't stand waiting any longer.
How you reciprocate these messages determines the next step.
Step 5:They Show Improvements Or Changes: If you notice that your ex is starting to get into shape or changing their style, they could be planning a big push to get you back.
If you also want them back it's a crucial time to act otherwise they might just get too hot for you.
Step 6:They Appear At Your Hangout Jimbo's Sports Pub or Delilah's Beauty Bin might not seem like your ex's favorite spots to spend a Saturday night but if they show up one evening, it's their attempt to get your attention.
Step 7: Their Friends Send Feelers: The world of International Spying is a complex one but it really pales in comparison to an ex who tries to win back your heart.
If you suddenly notice their friends are asking you a lot more questions or watching you intently while at Jimbo's Sports Pub it's most likely a data collecting mission.