Marriage is a secret we all keep deep down in our hearts from a very young age. Some talk about it and some don't, but that doesn't make marriage any less momentous. It is one thing we all look forward to, and prepare ourselves for. It would not be wrong to say that living a married life does need some preparation, especially when the newly-wed charm wears away and you both get tired of life's monotony. Although there is no specific timeframe for this boredom to creep into your lives, people generally consider the seventh year of marriage to be the time when things seem to go out of hand. If you too have been feeling the same way about your marriage, the following tips may help bring back the lost charm.

Go on a vacation

          You may be wondering how a vacation can help a disturbed marriage. Well, the truth is that people don't get bored of themselves or each other; it is rather the mundane routines they follow day after day which makes life boring. A vacation will allow you to divert your focus for some time; you will be in a new location and your mind will behave differently. It is a good chance to get to know each other from a different angle, something you may have missed all these years.

Go for couple's spa treatments

          Your mind, body, muscles and bones support you to fulfil the responsibilities of daily life. We always neglect the fact that they too need a break. While on your vacation, indulge in a couple's spa treatment. You both will feel the difference and the rejuvenated you would be free of all worries and stress. It is time to focus on each other and your relationship. Let everything else take a back seat and work towards the creation of a better relationship.

Settle differences

          It is almost impossible for two people to agree on everything. We are different individuals and will always have our individual perspectives, which often clash with those of our partner's. This vacation would be an excellent excuse to talk things over, things which have been holding you both back. Although settling differences does not ensure a disagreements free marriage, you both can try to keep your comfort zones aside to reach a midpoint which would make things convenient for both of you. Life becomes quite easy if the differences are wisely settled.

Start afresh

          There is no wisdom in holding on to bad or hurtful feelings. We all get angry, go out of control in the heat of the moment, and say or do things we never meant. These instances affect our relationship to a great extent. Once you settle your differences, let bad memories stay in the past alone and start afresh. If you both try to start on a fresh note, things will work out.

          A perfect marriage does not exist, nor has ever a perfect couple. We all are human beings and have our own shortcomings.As a couple, you need to accept these imperfections and learn to live with them.