Are you starting to make assumptions that your wife is cheating? If so, just having your suspicions is not enough for you to accuse her of this.

Clearly something has changed that is making you think that you are seeing signs your wife is cheating. Although most of the time when someone has these suspicions they are proved right, there is however the odd occastion where is could be wrong.

We all have a thing called intuition, and it is something that a lot of us tend to ignore for the most part. However we do need to pay attention to it, as it can be a valuable tool. The information that we get through our ears accounts for very little in terms of the amount of information recieved by our brains.

We pick up a lot of information that we are not consciously aware of, but that doesn't mean that the information is wrong. We sometimes get a gut feeling that something is awry, this is intuition.

You will have this notion because you will have found your wife acting differently around you. If you are starting to notice changes, the one thing you should avoid is making accusations without any proof.

Without evidence, everything is just hearsay. Make sure you keep your doubts to yourself at this moment in time, don't let your wife suspect you are onto her. If she starts to think that you are suspicious, she will just start being more careful. This is not what you want, you want her to carry on as normal.

You should be able to get all the information you want by doing it this way. Your wife will find it impossible to deny this if you have plenty evidence.

When you are fully sure that your spouse is being unfaithful, then you will be faced with some difficult decisions as to what steps to take. You will find this really hard to face up to. Who's to say your wife is to blame, could it be that you have some how forced her into seeking love from someone else.

The fact is that your wife married you because she loved you. Consider why it happened, obviously something changed in the marriage. When you have thought things over it is then up to you to how you deal with things and what you want from this marriage. You will need to decide whether there is any chance of the marriage moving forward, or if it is over.

The flip side of the coin is that your wife may not be having an affair. You could be wrong in thinking this. If you accuse her straight away it could cause a lot of trouble in the marriage if you are wrong. You've got to be absolutely certain that your wife is cheating on you, long before you start to confront her about it.